Ok, so now you’re laying in bed one night and suddenly you feel a hand on your leg, it slowly moves up.   You know the house is locked up tighter than a drum so there is no one inside.  The phrase, What the hell may ring through.  You kick your foot to push it away, maybe it’s the cat.  Oh, wait, I don’t have a cat……..and you find yourself in the throws of ecstasy.


“is a fetish that is classified as the paraphilia in which one is attracted to ghosts or spirits. One may be aroused by reflections or images in a mirror. Often those with the spectrophilia fetish masturbate against mirrors. Spectrophiliacs fantasize about ghosts and often imagine scenarios involving sexual events between themselves or others and spirits.”

Oooooookay, after your not so exhaustive google search you think you’re going cray cray right?

Maybe not, what if spirits can garner enough energy to have sex with the living.

Zak Bagans tried to get the spirit of Jerusha Howe to have sex with him but his advances were spurred. Although he swears he had some type of erotic experience that left him feeling, well, like he had sex, so….

What makes people believe they are having sex with the dead?  There have been accounts of this as far back as Arabic, Greek and even Hindu times. There are documented stories of spirits having sexual relations with the living.  I do have to point out, again, back in the day some smoked some pretty heavy stuff so…..could these accounts be hallucinations, Erotic Dreams, Wishes, plain masturbation fantasy?

It’s been said that sex with a spirit feels like a pure, loving environment. Something that totally transforms the room.  The feelings is illusory, like totally giving yourself, total relaxation.
Could you be masterbating in your sleep?

I have witnessed individuals who can, while in a deep state of meditation achive orgasam without ever touching themselves.  It is quite the show and rather interesting, is this sex with a spirit?

There are so many questions about this area of ghost hunting I’m not sure there will ever be definitive proof that a living person has had actual sex with a ghost.

The mind is a powerful place, no one really knows what goes on when one sleeps. And although Spectrophilia has/is discussed in paranormal circles there is currently no evidence it actually has ever happened, and although there are YouTube videos showing it, one can never be absolutely sure what’s really going on.

It’s an interesting avenue of study/investigation but how do you investigate it.  Set up cameras and have the living sleep naked with no blankets?

Sex and the single ghost is sure to travel through history as a myth, unless The Ghost Adventures Crew returns to Longfellow’s Wayside Inn in Sudbury and Room Number 9.